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Matthew Fray

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Hi, I'm Matthew Fray. (Most people call me Matt or "idiot.") I'm a 37-year-old divorced single dad. My marriage ended in 2013 and I thought it was bad. Like, really bad. Then, while trying to figure out how and why it happened, I discovered it was for pretty much the same reasons EVERY divorce happens. The implications of that are staggering. So, now I write about relationships, but not in a super lovey-dovey feely kind-of way. I write about them because they are the foundation of our lives, and most of us are getting it wrong, thus have crappy lives. There are a few core concepts the average person rarely or never thinks about as they navigate daily life. NOT thinking about them is why everyone is accidentally destroying their relationships. It's a problem. And I irreverently try to be part of the solution. Like a less-badass Deadpool, or a more-badass counselor minus any sort of professional certification. But the great thing about TRUTH is that it always holds up to scrutiny. You can read more about that at my digital home,
컵을 싱크대 옆에 놔둬서 아내에게

컵을 싱크대 옆에 놔둬서 아내에게 이혼당했다

이렇게 말하면 정말 지나친 것으로 들린다: 내 아내는 내가 가끔 싱크대 옆에 그릇을 놔둬서 나를 떠났다고. 내 아내가 어처구니없는 사람으로 보이고, 나는 불공평한 기대의 희생자로 보인다. 가끔 나는 컵을 부엌 싱크대 옆에 놔둔다. 식기 세척기 바로 앞이다. 지금 내게 이건 큰일이 아니다. 내가 결혼했을 때도 큰일이 아니었다. 하지만 아내에겐 큰일이었다.
2016년 01월 27일 06시 32분 KST